
The 3-day...
My friend, Alyssa is leaving for the San Diego 3-Day tomorrow...
and I wish more than anything...
that I was going to be there with her.
For those who may have not heard of this event before it is AMAZING! The 3-Day Breast Cancer walk is a 60 mile walk in support of The Susan G Komen foundation and raises money for research, prevention, free mammograms and so much more. By no means is this an "easy" event to participate in. It was tough... probably the hardest thing I have ever done other than bearing a child. Imagine participating in a marathon for 3 days in a row and that is what the 3-day is all about. Did I mention that you have to pay to play? Oh yeah- you have to fund raise your butt off too because you are required to raise $2200 in donations! In the end when it all comes down to the finish... it is sooooo worth it!
Last year Alyssa and I participated in the Seattle 3-Day and it was an incredible experience. We trained for hours, we fundraised for hours, we stressed for months, and in the end we had tons of fun! Last year was Alyssa's 2nd walk and my first so she tried as much as she could to prep me for what I was about to face... little did I know that no matter what anyone tells you, you have no idea what your getting yourself into. The course was challenging, the adreneline was rushing, and the hills were steep... but we made it! We walked every single step of that 60 mile course.
Let me give you a little background to explain why this event is so important to me. Alyssa's mom is a brilliant woman and a breast cancer survivor. Joanne was so kind and sincere and welcomed me with open arms into her family circle. Joanne was diagnosed about 15 years ago with breast cancer and she valiantly battelled it into remission and was clean for 7 years. Unfortunately, the cancer returned. This time it was terminal because it had metastisized into her bones and there is no cure. But there was still hope! There were 5 different medications that would help her maintain the cancer and prevent it from spreading further throughout her body. If each drug worked to its greatest potential she would get 2 years from each drug... 10 years! That is a substantial amount of time considering the diagnosis was 'terminal'. So the battle continued. Joanne continued to work full time and be an active part in her grandchildren's lives (plus she had adopted my daughters for a few more grandchildren). She managed her pain and if you didn't know her personally... you would have never guessed she was in a battle for her life.
So last year 2007 after hearing of Alyssa's previous 3-Day walk with her sister I wanted in. I wanted to support the cause. Even though I have no personal family history of breast cancer... 80% currently diagnosed have no prior family history... so... I walked.
I walked for me, I walked for my daughters, I walked for my friend, and I walked for Joanne.
I knew that some day my best friend would lose her mom to this deadly disease and what else could I do to support her than to walk with her side by side for 60 miles...
To see Joanne at the finish line was more than I can explain...
It was uplifting. It was inspiring. It was spiritual.
This year was to be a story similar to last... train, walk, enjoy. Unfortunately that was not the case. In April Joanne's health took a turn for the worse. She quickly declined. Within a month she passed. She fought and incredible battle but in the end she was so fragile and frail there was no chance for her to overcome. The cancer had spread... To say her death was tragic would be no exaggeration. We (speaking as a collective family) were not ready to say goodbye. So what do you say to your best friend who just lost her mother? Nothing. You walk. This year I would walk in HONOR of Joanne Zaharias.
Unfortunately due to extenuating circumstances... I cannot participate. It breaks my heart.
So to you Alyssa- I say this.
I love you and good luck! I will be walking with you in spirit, right alongside your mom!
I pray for you and this journey you are embarking on this Friday.
My thoughts are with you.
This will be your toughest walk yet... and you will make it.
I can't wait to hear about every step of the way when you get back!
I can't wait to crew it up next year in Georgia!
I love you Momma Lyssa!